So if you ever seen shameless you would understand this title… all the perks of marriage just without the paper and that is what Corey and I. Yes him is my hubby no matter what… I was married once before and I have seen marriages fail over the years and be super successful there is no written formula that tells you what works and what doesn’t work…
the only thing I say is enjoy life and enjoy whoever your with… if they make you feel special and wonderful then enjoy that if they make you feel miserable and wonderful then leave…
I hate when people say well I have kids so what do what’s best for the kids and if your in a toxic relationship and I don’t care if it is the women who is the toxic one or the man… you do what’s best for the kids.
So Corey and I have been through hell and yet we have turned it into a fun ride and learned to enjoy one another through our rough times and our good times… I can honestly say he is my soul mate and I know I am his…
How long has everyone been with there partner?? Is there advice out there that you give people to help them be successful in your relationships???
So picture is suppose to say all put together… so two months ago we had to down size from a nice little farm house on an acre to an apartment on the top floor that’s less then 1,000 square feet mind you four kids and hubby and myself…. yes I call him my hubby even thought we aren’t officially married that’s a whole other story…
So this bathroom is like a closet compared to my old place and I have anywhere from 6 to 12 people in and out of there all day long…. so to maintain it has been a chore but today I finally scrubbed the walls replaced the curtain with my other one that I have and deep cleaned under the sink the tub and the floor and I even got the baseboards now after all that I am exhausted and don’t want to clean anymore but next is my room… oh boys
So this is just one thing that happens in my house daily…. my boyfriend and I both ride Bmx bikes well a couple weeks ago he told me to through away his old shoes away because there was holes in them but the other day after a hike/swimming thing this past weekend he decided to try and wear my shoes well let’s just say after an hour of sore feet he wore them how they are not suppose to be worn….. so let’s just say when I had to put my shoes on this afternoon for work do you know how hard it is to get the backs to reform??????
Hello my name is Brandy. And I have decided to start this blog for one I love to write always have and two well sometimes I wonder if people believe me when I say my life isn’t easy and it can be a little bit of a funny farm…
so the background on us. I am newly divorced mom, four kids, an amazing boyfriend and the dog…
Corey and I met in the middle of when my divorce was happening. He was the kind selfless spirit I needed at the time and honestly I wasn’t looking for love. He was the friend I needed. And of course as time went on we fell in love.
Dakota is my oldest she is 9 now. Maci is 7. Emmett is 4 and grace is 17 months and man can we tell you how crazy our house gets sometimes…
and then there is the 8 year old dog who was originally my moms dog then went to my sister and now back with me… she is kind of the traveling dog…. get it instead of traveling pants it’s the dog….. no okay…. lol
So our life’s are nothing but kids and work and the occasional wild event that happens a lot lol… well here is to making the most of this….
Buckwheat Family 